Kink of the Week - Masturbation

Masturbation. - Kink of the week

Are you a regular wanker?

Once upon a time I masturbated quite often. Since losing my virginity I rarely ever do it now. I feel that if I have a willing man in my bed, then there is no need for me to do it myself.

 When did you first start masturbating? 
Ummmm.... I don't remember. It was too many moons ago to guess. I don't remember a time when masturbation was not a form of stress relief.

Was it a wonderful discovery of a shameful secret? 
Wonderful discovery. 

Maybe you were bought up in a environment where you were taught that touching yourself was ‘devils play’, how did this effect you and your exploration of your self pleasure?
I never knew anyone thought of it as devils play. We didn't talk about it but I knew that everyone does it, or thought so atleast.

Do you like to use sex toys when you masturbate? Maybe you have a favourite toy or maybe you prefer the joys of your own hand/fingers and nothing else.
Because most of my masturbation is in the form of a show, to allow a lover to watch I prefer no toys . (Some reason the men in my life seem to feel the need to watch. I don't know why.) In rare occasion a lover has asked to watch the use of toys during my solo play, and in those instances I have used them. Toys do not get me to the finish line any faster than other non toy methods and I do feel sexier without a smorgasbord of toys.

Does masturbation feature in your relationship?
Yes, I would say it is a normal thing to watch each other maturbate especially trying to seduce one another. Besides, Can you name anything hotter than seeing a man shoot the evidence of his pleasure into the air?


 Is watching your partner getting off is seriously hot or something that makes you uncomfortable, alternatively how do you feel about being watched?
I think there is nothing visually hotter than watching a man shoot the majic white cream. I have been known to find willing men to wank for me instead of porn. Although I do still watch porn. And as you may have guessed, I don't mind being watched. I am lucky to be blessed with enough confidence that being naked has never given me pause.

What do you think about when you masturbate?
 Is there a favourite, orgasm guaranteed, fantasy that you like to think about when you are reaching between your thighs?
Nope. Sorry to disappoint, but I have ever need a fantasy to help when pleasuring myself. I usually clear my mind and don't think of anything or anyone.



Do you like to watch porn, or maybe you prefer the stimulation of the written word?
I prefer the written word. And before you ask, I did not find inspiration to roll around the sheets from any of those over popularised "50 shades of grey" books. (My opinion in those books could be a post for another day) My favorite is a good sext buddy. Occasionally I will read a story story written by a talented author. That being said, I do still enjoy watching porn. I just prefer to do it with others.